Choose a time and look through a sex toy catalogue or website (ours would be a good start. hehe) with your partner and choose something that you’re both comfortable with, maybe start with something small, a cock ring or small vibrators. Choosing something too big and scary, or something that you’re not ready for could easily put you off using sex toys again.

Take your partner into the bedroom and experiment with your newly bought sex toy.

Experimenting with sex toys for the first time is a lot of fun, but be soft and gentle with each other, using a soft touch with any sex toy that you use will actually heighten the sensation of the sex toy and will help create a more relaxing and enjoyable encounter. If you feel at any time that it is uncomfortable, make your partner aware of this and stop, there’s nothing wrong with admitting that the toy that you have chosen isn’t the right toy for you.